Let me start by saying, I do not claim to be a relationship expert and my husband and my relationship is not perfect. But, we have been through a lot together during our seven years of marriage. We have experienced three moves to three different cities, several different jobs, infertility, and the list goes on. But through it all, we have maintained our love and I mostly credit it to our ability to keep our sense of humor through it all. You may not agree with me, but I believe that my relationship with my husband is more important than my relationship with my child. If my husband and I are not providing a firm foundation together, how can we expect to raise a happy, healthy child? Hopefully we all know by now that all the money and possessions in the world will never make you happy if your heart is not at peace, and part of finding that peace, is cultivating a healthy relationship with your spouse.
I just want to add, that although I refer to my “husband”, my love and relationship advice is non-gender specific. It will be applicable to all romantic adult relationships because in my opinion, LOVE is LOVE!